This blog has been created because I have found very little written about or in support of the ‘dad’ in the AB relationship. While there are articles on topics related to “submission”, they tend to come from the perspective of BDSM which, as I hope will be clear from my posts, is not an interest of mine personally.
I have had the chance to “be” a dad and to care for another man who played the role of my son. I have also played this role on-line and this blog starts during a period during which one such on-line discussion has been insightful and emotional. I would also like to experience being a dad again in a ‘real life’ setting.
I am a healthy, active and successful person and am happy in my life and place in society. I hope that by sharing my hopes, fears, confusions and expectations here that I might be able to provide something to the available discussion of AB/DLs and in particular the perspective of the adult role in those relationships.
I am a gay male in my early 40’s who has been, and would like to be, a caretaker or ‘dad’ to a son (a legal-aged male) who wishes to be babied.
Yes – this site is about adult babies (ABs) and diaper lovers (DLs) – terms used to refer to adults who role play or who have a fetish regarding age regression or diapers. It’s not a site about children. References to children, to ‘sons’ or to ‘boys’ are references to adults playing those roles unless otherwise noted.
Like many alternate sexualities and tastes, this can be off-putting to some, confusing to others, intriguing perhaps, and something that many can instantly relate to (many more than you would think!)
I do not feel a need, however, to justify an alternate world-view to anyone and this site does not welcome intolerance of this subject or of others.
Privacy and Commerce
This site has no commercial affiliations and I don’t need any! I will never put ads or accept sponsorship or money for this blog. Your use of your e-mail address in order to comment on posts or ‘subscribe’ is for administrative use only and will never be shared with another person, never sold, and never given out, even to a close friend. Your privacy is sacrosanct to me.
Because the forums are moderated it may require your e-mail address to post. The subscribe function is an automated WordPress thing which will send you updates via e-mail so you can know when I have added to the site. This information, again, will not be sold, shared, given out other than within whatever terms of service govern WordPress – and I feel that those terms are well-aligned with the goals of this blog and will change my use of these features if I ever have reason to believe otherwise.
Moderation and Rules
Comments are moderated for the reasons noted above: to avoid spammers, griefers, trolls, and people who don’t understand the community. While I’m not sure how many people will read this blog on any sort of frequent basis, I’m going to reserve the right to keep any discussion that occurs within whatever range I see as appropriate to facilitating healthy dialog and sharing.
I don’t see why anyone would, but just to have it down here, the contents of this site are copyright and subject to the appropriate laws related to copyright protection and fair use.